what kind of F.R.I.E.N.D am I?

Which "Friend" Are You?

My Result: Monica

Mon! You're the normal one, honey, in the best way possible. You're caring, you're responsible, you look to the future—what a gem. Wait a second, did you just start editing for grammar mistakes in the middle of reading your own compliments? Ok, so you like things, well, the way you like them. But even when you're smiling through clenched teeth, waiting for everyone else to get with the program, deep down, you're really still smiling. You're just waiting for that impatient moment to pass.

When it comes right down to it, you are thoughtful, meticulous, and good at what you do. As for romance, you can be a little picky and want things to be just-so. We wouldn't expect anything less. And like the original Monica, if you can avoid rushing into things, you'll find the right match and all the happiness your sweet, finicky, heart deserves.

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An evening well spent

Many Saturday evenings come and go,but how well we spend them is all what it takes to make it a beautiful one.I had one such Saturday evening yesterday.After finishing my last lab exam of my engineering career,little less did i want to get back to my books cause that wasn't the agenda of the evening,at least not for a few days now.
There lay an invite to the Annual Day Celebrations of my brothers company at KTPO for the evening at home,and a little birdie told me there was Shaan performing for the event.And that was enough for me to decide that i had to see Shaan live...yeah a live concert after such a long time.I wanted to go and so did I.
The drive to KTPO was a long 26 kms!!! and who knew the world out there would be so different from the quiet suburbs we live in.All along the way we were embraced by the thriving real estate industry.KTPO was a huge place,I think KTPO is the single biggest closed stadium housed in Bangalore.
Well the Celebrations were good,all the preparations taken by the participants to put up their piece of entertainment was worth watching and appreciating,cause it was the employees of the company who graced the entire evening.Reminded me of my School Day celebrations when we would take an entire week off to prepare our piece of dance or skit with such great fervor,that the excitement dies only after the performance is over and appreciated.Anyways the evening was at its best with Mandira Bedi and Roshan Abbas trying their best to MC the event in sync.After the entire grand setup of the evening i kept trying to calculate how big the company is right now considering it was started some 30 odd years back,its shares doing consistently well in the market,the company acquiring such prestigious projects in the country and overseas.I kept wondering how rich the CEO of this company is right now and how he must be to be listed as one of who's who in the richest people in India, to win the Economic Times CEO of the year award.Wishing i could have been directly a part of his lineage,to be able to enjoy in first hand all the grand and warmth and luxury and success of such an amazing entrepreneur.I kept wondering how such a person would be in real life.
When he was called on stage to give away the awards for the evening.I was taken aback.I mean many a times you think of a particular person or situation in your own way and expect it to be the same in reality,but when you actually face the reality you are so stumbled and realize how wrong you were.
I kept thinking ill see the CEO as a man clad in a thick black suit,a tie with a commanding stride after all thats what we believe successful,rich people have in them.But to my surprise onto the stage came this simple attired man,with such a humble walk,like any ordinary individual.And when he spoke he didn't once use the word 'I', he always addressed as a 'WE' and spoke only about his team of Executives and in fact called them onto the stage to give away the awards along with him.This humility which i saw in this man made me think,made me feel small and also realize what great,successful people are made of.If you recollect you realize achievers are those who are humble,be it Kiran Bedi,Ramachandra Guha,Sudha Murthy all of them have it in them and thats what makes them all soo respectable.One lesson learnt i thought
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Yeah the reason i came for the event finally turned up at 8pm,he was the show-stopper of the evening and one of the very good singers in the Hindi music industry and one of my favorite singers Shaan (Shantanu Mukherjee).Boy-o-Boy did he have a golden voice or what.Singing along,dancing to his tune and listening to him live was such a bliss.


This was followed by a massive dinner,nope i would rather call it a banquet.Cut straight from some story book,this was a huge room filled with food ranging from Italian,Mexican,Chinese right till our very own South Indian "masala dosa" and yeah the best part was it was all Vegetarian.To my surprise one corner of the banquet hall had heaps of fresh fruits being cut and served individually making you feel like a prince/princess.Now thats what u call 'Employee Satisfaction' i thought.Eating such good food and listening to the melodious voice of Shaan was a very nice way to relax.
Now for the second lesson 'Employee Satisfaction'.Never hesitate to spend on people who mean the most to you is what i realized i learned from the entire evening.
Well i came here expecting nothing,and returned back learning a few things from a great entrepreneur...And yes the long drive back home in the middle of the night in top gear was superb too.... :)

Some of my favourite Quotes

We come across people with various hobbies.Collecting stamps,collecting coins,collecting sweet wrappers,collecting used match sticks blah blah.One of my hobbies over the past few years has been 'Collecting quotes'.You dont need to be a great thinker or a philosopher or a rocket scientist to make sense,sometimes even what a toddler utters out casually can be really thoughtful.Such are my collection of quotes.Gathered from reading,listening to people around and sometimes even dialogues from my favourite movies and tv shows :).I have a huge collection , which is very dear to me,maybe because of the meaning on reading/hearing them or by the meaning i derived when i read/heard them first..My collection of quotes has been my unknown source of strength for quite sometime now.
Nevertheless I have shortlisted a few very interesting ones.Read along and enjoy.

• Every crown is made for a head,but not every head for a crown.

-Unknown
(This is the most inspiring quote i ve ever come across and remains my all time favourite)

• Dreams are not what you see in sleep.Dreams are those that do not let you sleep.

-Dr.Abdul Kalaam.

• Experience is what you get when you dont get what you want.

-Unknown

• Conscience is the best friend you can ever hope to get.

-I really dont know whose original words were these but i vividly remember my English lecturer in Puc say these words,these were the only few words that he had ever uttered which made sense to me.

• Everything is funny as long as its happening to someone else.

-Unknown

• Its better to deserve an honor and not get it,than to get one and not deserve it.

-Mark Twain
(I ve had first hand experience of this in BMS campus,so i would rate this quote really high.)

• You dont drown by falling in water, you drown by staying there.

-Edward Louis Cole

• It doesn matter if you are the King or the Pawn,in the end,both come back to the same box after the game. - Unknown
  

• Life is not about the number of breaths you take,its the number of moments that take your breath away.

-Dialogue from the movie 'Hitch'
(Its soo strange how true small little sentences like this can be,i loved this quote,loved the movie, love Will Smith !!!!!!!! :) )

• Opinions are like watches,everyones watch shows a different time,but everyone believes that their time is correct.

-Unknown,but am sure a lot of you guys will agree with this one.

• Never believe that the lines on your hands lead you to your destiny.because even those without hands have a destiny.

-This was an sms forward which i read.Makes a lot of sense.

• Love is not love,which alters when it alteration finds.Or bends with the remover to remove.Love alters not with brief hours and weeks,but bears it out even to the edge of doom.

-Being a huge Shakespeare lover,my collection of quotes would be incomplete without his words.

Sholay-The Best Hindi movie i ve ever seen or rather ever made...

"यह हाथ नही फासी का फंदा है ,यह हाथ हमका देदे ठाकुर "

Pardon me for my delay in watching a movie as great as "Sholay", when i am 20 something...i really regret watching it soo late...regret enjoying such a masterpiece after being made about 3 decades back...not being able to rejoice a 4 hour long beauty in the cinema halls as a youngster(if i could)...regret whistling for those power -packed dialogues....regret not being able to watch it on the 70 mm screen where it truly deserves to be worshipped..... i have fallen in love with this movie..
I feel too small a mortal to give a review on this movie but i definetly want to bring out all the flavors in this movie which made me soo happy watching this bollywood masterpiece...The two characters i terribly (sorry for my adjectives) enjoyed are Thakur-essayed with great elan by Sanjeev Kumar।Watching this movie made me fall in love with Sanjeev Kumar all over again-i loved him from days i watched his movies like Manchali,Silsila and the others of those times.And the other undoubtedly being Gabbar by Amjad Khan..he was worth a watch in his debute...not once did i feel that this might have been his first movie..his first taste of the silverscreen...his slippery dialogues...his boisterous laugh all fit perfectly in this already perfect movie... Believe me i would have watched a zillion spoofs of nearly every scene in this movie before watching it today...i would have seen soo many rip offs of the particular scenes in this movie but while watching the movie-i felt like i was watching every scene for the first time.. like i was feeling every scene for the first time ,every dialogue,every location,every everything...the first time!!!

There are very few Hindi movies which have a realistic effect all throughout...and this is definetely one of those...

*You want to feel the desperation of Thakur to have Gabbar alive..
*You want to feel the pain of Radha..the pain of loosing your husband and his immediate family soon after ones maritial status coming along..
*You want to feel the anger of Veeru when Jai-his best friend through thick and thin is dead..
*You also want to believe that just 2 people(Jai and Veeru) are enough to fight the army of dacoits around them..
*You also want to believe that yes....Thakur can fight against Gabbar with just his legs and his head alone ;)

Thats not all....generally when ur watching a movie your either sympathetic towards hero and his good men or towards the villan and his bad boys ..but this is one movie you would love both the sides...because both of them are brilliant and effortless in their own way...
The script being strong does justice to every character and every situtation shown..
The music feels appropriate- no unnecesary songs to prolong the movie..and the best part of the music is that there is minimalistic background score-which gives the viewer soo much attention and lets him feel the scene till the very end.And also unlike the movies of those days no sounds of "dishoom dishoom":)....
The setting seems perfect for us to picturise the gang of dacoits exploiting Ramgad.....
The part which i loved the most...the only mode of transport shown all throughout being primarily -horses....It was amazing to see every scene being shot with these 4 legged beauties which gives such a realistic feel to this movie...
And also nothing would make this movie as good as it is without the superb dialogues by Javed Akhtar, one of my favourite dialogue from this movie-
" यह रामगढ के आदमी अपने बेटियों को ,कौन चक्की का अता पीसते है रे !!!!!
" Wow what a dialogue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hats off to Ramesh Sippy and his crew for brewing up such a phenomenal movie....It was soo worth the 4 hours i spent on my comp today ...

Honestly i am very apprehensive of watching Ram Gopal Varmas -Sholay...It couldnt have got better than the original..but this chain of thoughts will be another post :)

Parking Troubles

Ever felt frustrated because of some unkonwn stranger(s),whose lack of common sense affecting you?Someones lack of discipline annoying you?making your life miserable for a while?????
Well i had such an evening yesterday,a cool Saturday evening to venture out for a long drive and do some amount of shopping left me feel so harrowed for around 35 mins-thanks to no parking space.This place -the soo called most well planed suburb of South Bangalore was stinking with overpopulation of cars.Worst then that was the annoying habit of shoppers to park cars on both sides of a narrow road,when parking is only on one side of the road.The lanes being wide enough to allow just 2 average size cars to move simultaneosly at a time..it was an annoying experience to find a place to park my car..And adding to all this are the One-ways on every other road..!!!!
All this leaves one to park their car about 2 kms from where they need to visit,and the whole purpose of driving a vehicle around is lost...

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

To keep the reviews going..heres the second one.And this is on the latest arrival on the book stands..Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. Am sure this book needs no explicit description,this was one of the most awaited books of 2007. J.K.Rowlings 7th and the final baby in the family of the Harry Potter series.

If i were to describe this book in just one word...it would be very easy ,and i would pick the term 'Disappointing'.Well if you are a hardcore Harry Potter fan,one who is blinded by the deeds of this extra-ordinary boy ,one who just wants to know who dies Harry or Voldermoth ,then am sure you would disagree me,but if you are a prolific reader,who is looking for something beyond the packaging strategy used by J.K.Rowling,then am sure u'll readthis article along.

Now why i call it a disappointment is basically for the fact that it had nothing new in terms of contributing to the story .We all knew from the last book(a painstakingly long one i must admit) that Harry was given a mission by Dumbeldore i.e to kill all the remaining Horcruxes.The story just keeps getting dragged from the page one till where Harry reaches the task and also gets to find out one of the vital Horcruxes being he himself.

Another reason why i use the 'D' word for this book is that,there was just one new concept which was brought in the whole book which the reader was never exposed by Rowling(in her previous books),the whole idea of -'The Deathly Hallows',-The Invisibility Cloak,The Resurrection Stone and The Elder Wand ,the combination of all of which will enable one to overpower death.This was a novel twist (Horcruxes v/s Hallows) brought into this seemingly boring story but i felt that Rowling was confused all throught out whether to add this concept as the vital part of the story or leave it just as a myth.She introduces this in the later half of the book,stirs up some curioisity but the whole thing fades off from the reader because she couldnt maintain whether she wanted to add it to the story or not.

The third and the most vital reason why i call the book a let down,is that she takes a lot of liberty in the concept of magic and tries to overuse it,there were times in the book where i felt that she made the book melodramatic to a very great extent.The whole concept of accepting death by Harry which makes 'He-Who -should-not be -named' turn into a purer, rejuvinated soul-looks like a plot picked up straight from some Bollywood movie.Meeting the dead Dumbeldore in the third world and trying to gain answers to unknown questions were some of the liberties which the author took on the readers magical understanding.

Also what put me into serious thinking over Rowlings creativity were the names of Harrys kids...they are called Albus,James and Lily.Its nice that she wanted to hold a connection between the past and the future but i think it was a little over the roof..to use a more colloquial terms-'Bollywoodish ;)'

I would still stick to the fact that its a nice fictional journey created by Rowling which gripped the reading world all together but she should have made the end as good as the beginning itself.We have all lived the life of Harry while reading the book so its fair enough if we were asking for something better.

The Inscrutable Americans - Anurag Mathur

Dear Brother

“Anyway, I am learning many important things about Americans. Biggest thing is language. It is earlier making many problematics for me ,because like everyone I am thinking Americans are speaking English, but brother it is not English, it is American. I am facing so many embarassings on this reason
Once sitting with good friends, we are making good times. Saying jokes and laughing but when I am also saying good joke, they are saying “Get out of here”. I am going home and not sleeping that night, I am in so much fury. Now I am finding that it is also joke to say that. They are having many such sayings”

Your Brother,

Gopal

Well that’s Gopal(Guh-pal) for all of you…the protagonist of this book .A lad from a village called Jajau –which he calls the Paris of Madhya Pradesh ,comes to the U.S.A to do a diploma in chemical engineering. His life in India centers around his ancestral hair oil factory, as his father describes it-‘they have more hair oil in their veins than blood’. His English is comical to read at first but you cant take his absurd language after a point in the book. His first brush with America through a billboard having a scantly clad model endorsing a product is funny. And from there starts his journey to explore this new country yet strictly believing in his Motherlands strengths when questioned.

This book describes the image an average Indian holds about America through the character of Gopal. His image of America is through his little known knowledge of Archie n Jughead, Deep Throat and Saturday Night Fever, his craving to meet Brooke Sheilds and plans to lure her by sending a lifelong supply of his Jajau made hair oil leaves the reader laughing but it just stops there. His craving to live like an ordinary American guy with a girl to fulfill his carnal pleasures, his brush with racism there, his encounter with different American men and women grows this character from a young innocent lad into a man. He understands of the racial divide there, where the Blacks accept everyone of the darker color as their ally while whites ignoring other colored people. The fight of the natives for jobs which are being lost to foreigners-makes him realize that maybe its not really the land of opportunities afterall.

If you are looking for some really good literature-this book is a complete no no. I would pass it off as average read maybe something u want to pick up on a random day and finish off in a few hours. Honestly this book doesn’t show the readers anything new, it’s the same plot of Indians going to America to try their ways by bending their own.
Such a plot has been quite common for the past few years. Some things described by the author are good. I characters used especially Gopal and Randy to distinctly show the difference in Indian and American ways was done well. Be it in the broken lingo of Gopal or the carefree, typical Yank ways of Randy, these two characters give some hope to the repetitious plot of the book .The other thing I liked about this book apart form its title is how Gopal symbolizes America with 3 things

*Baskets in front of every American Home
*Vegetarian Cats-or Pussies
*And an old woman who has a weird idea about India.

So let me end this in Anurag Mathur’s style with what Gopal has to do with America

“Seeing the world and things like that, making me broader before settling down to do business”